2. This might sound like a stupid questions but are you sure
that you really love your ex boyfriend? Do you love him
or do you just want to get him back? Find out the truth
before you move forward with your plans to win him
over.
3. Even though it's perfectly normal to worry and feel
down about your breakup, if you're serious about
getting her back you need to get tough with yourself.
4. I know this sounds strange but there is a big difference
between loving someone and wanting to posess them.
Loving your ex boyfriend means that you want the best
for him and you want him to be happy. You can still love
him without even seeing him again. You can close your
eyes and think of him and wish that good things happen
in his life. You can remember good times you had and be
happy for the time that you had together. Loving him
doesn't require that he tell you that he loves you or for
him to even like you. If you love him you simply love
him.
5. Keep in mind that when you finally do make that
decision to try to get back together with your ex you
might want to keep it to yourself. If you're not going to
get support from your friends or family then it's often
better to keep your decision to yourself. It's sometimes
better to have no support than to have people around
you reminding you of the pain that you went through
and all the reasons why your ex wasn't the right one for
you.
6. Sometimes by simply loving someone we can actually
attract them back into our life in a way that no amount
of convincing or talking ever could. By just loving your ex
boyfriend you can have peace about your feelings
because they don't require any validation or
reciprocation. By loving your boyfriend in your heart and
wanting the best for him, even if that means him not
being with you for a period of time because your
emotions and desires to posess him scared him away,
can bring him back. By backing off and just loving him
you can bring him back.
7. Acting crazy and worrying and being depressed isn't
going to win her over. Being funny, cool and knowing in
your heart that she will fall in love with you again will
get her back.
8. Try these exercises for a week or two and see if you
notice any changes in your boyfriend. In addition, spend
some time thinking about loving him selflessly. Try to
love him without thinking about yourself or your needs
and see if there is a change in you. You very well might
lose the anxiety and stress and depression often
associated with a breakup and you might find that he
starts showing you a little more attention.