2. Some men have an unfortunate misconception that can cause a feeling
of insecurity or even frustration in the bedroom: Women should
orgasm from penetration alone. According to the available research,
this occurs in only about a quarter of women. Most require clitoral
stimulation in order to reach the big finish. Along with not
pressuring oneself to get her there - and, of course, not pressuring
her to get there - men can inform themselves on things they can do
in bed to increase her enjoyment. Combining certain positions with
clitoral stimulation may not only bring her to orgasm, but make the
pleasurable release even more explosive. Since sex is an important
component of penis health, a man will be doing himself a favor as
well. Consider the following to encourage a female orgasm.
3. 1) Learn about her other pleasure zones. While most
men know that women tend to enjoy vaginal
intercourse even if it doesn't result in an orgasm, they
may not realize that there are areas within the vagina
beyond the G-spot that can deliver great pleasure.
And for some men, the G-spot itself is a mystery.
Let's learn more about each pleasure zone.
4. The G-spot is located 1-3" within the vagina on the anterior
wall. Its sensitivity varies from woman to woman, but it is
generally recognized as a common erogenous zone within
the vagina. There are two more pleasure spots called the
anterior and posterior fornices. The posterior fornix is
located above and behind the cervix, while the anterior
fornix is above and in front of the cervix. Some women go
wild when one of these areas is stimulated, but it's
important to ensure that one's partner is such a woman
before thrusting deep. Some women find cervical
stimulation painful, and therefore do not enjoy this move.
5. 2) Learn how to stimulate the posterior fornix. How can a man
tell if a female partner likes posterior fornix stimulation? A
good indicator is if she gravitates toward from-behind
positions and deep thrusts. A man can feel his tip slide past the
cervix; this is when he's in contact with the posterior fornix.
To encourage an intense orgasm by stimulating this area, a man
should make sure he or his partner is able to manually
stimulate the clitoris at the same time. He may be able to do
this with his hand in standard or standing doggie style
positions (unless the couple prefers these positions with the
woman's thighs squeezed tightly together, in which case it may
be possible but a bit more difficult). They can also try the
spooning position with her knees spread apart - this affords
either partner easy access to the outer zone.
6. 3) Learn how to stimulate the anterior fornix. If a woman
loves deep-penetration missionary, she's likely a fan of
anterior fornix stimulation. A man can simply lift his body
away from her enough to leave room for her hand; the
couple may also place a soft vibrating object between their
bodies in this position, providing stimulation for both.
7. 4) Learn how to stimulate the G-spot. There are many
positions that facilitate both G-spot and clitoral contact,
including:
- Woman-on-top, leaning back slightly
- Reverse cowgirl
- Doggie style with shallow thrusts
- Modified missionary with pillows beneath her buttocks,
her knees bent and feet on his chest
