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21 First Date
Ideas
First date is always important because it’s where you drop your first impression and
most importantly, it plays a big role to determine whether or not this relationship
will work out.
It’s just like choosing what to read. Let’s not talk about the book cover (I know, I
know, Don’t just a book by its cover!) so now we all judge by how the story begins. No
matter how amazing the storyline is, if the introduction failed to grab readers’
attention, no one is going to read it because no one likes to get their time wasted.
Relationship works this way too.
If you need ideas to secure your first date and your own
impression, You’ve come to the right place! When I first started dating, my idea of
a date was the stereotypical cheap-dinner-and-a-movie. Don’t hate on me, I didn’t
know any better! By the time I finished high school I was pretty comfortable in my
own skin and got pretty good at coming up with ideas for dates. I’ve put together a
list of some of my favorites as well as some suggested by friends. Enjoy!
Outdoor Adventures
1. Go for a walk – This is such a simple first date idea but most shy away from
it because they feel like they must do something complex in order for their
date to be impressed. Wrong! The only ideas you need to impress your date
with are the ones that you articulate as your conversation progresses. If you
are an interesting person and have found a fun person to spend time with, rest
assured that a walk about town will be just fine. Remember, the idea is to
leave your date wanting more. As a warning, you may be tempted to start
talking about previous relationships. Don’t. That’s not how to get over an ex.
Rather, enjoying the company of a fun new person without dwelling on the
past will serve you best!
2. Watch an outdoor movie – Going to a movie is pretty worn out in the
world of first date ideas. You can resurrect it in a fun way by going to see a
movie outdoors or, even better, at a drive-in movie theater if you still happen
to have one near where you live.
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3. Create your own picnic – Pick a nice spot near where you’re meeting up
and swing by a grocery store or take-out restaurant for some quick eats before
setting up camp for food and conversation with your new favorite person.
There’s no need to spend a lot of money. Picnics are supposed to be simple
and you want it to be about getting to know your date, not truffles wrapped in
gold foil!
4. Go boating – The idea of sailing on a first date seems like a recipe for
disaster but something milder, like canoeing, row boating, or taking a paddle
boat out on a sunny afternoon would work well. Admittedly, the last time I
took a girl on a paddle boat for a date we both ended up soaking wet with
marsh moss in our hair. It was amazing though!
5. Go for a run together – If running is your idea of a good time, an easy run
with a new friend can make for a great date!
6. Volunteer at a soup kitchen – One of the best first dates I’ve ever been on
involved meeting up with a woman at 5:30am to serve breakfast at the local
soup kitchen. Not only did we get to know each other better but we got to do
something worthwhile that helped our community. It’s hard to come up with a
reason why giving back to your community could be considered a bad idea for
a first date! If you don’t have a soup kitchen or other short-order volunteer
opportunity, be creative and come up with your own. There is always
somebody nearby who could use some help if we are willing to give it.
7. Get up insanely early and be the first customers at your favorite
breakfast joint – You’ll get a chance to chat before the restaurant gets busy
and have time to do some people-watching when the regulars start pouring in.
Note: If you find somebody who is cool with rolling out of bed early to join you
for a breakfast date, it’d be a bad idea to let them get away!
Indoor Sweetness
1. Take an intro yoga or other fitness class – If you’re really out of shape,
this might not be a great idea for a first date. Otherwise, pick a class that will
fit both of your fitness levels and have some fun! You should know that getting
hot and sweaty
2. Visit a psychic – Everybody likes to know the future, well, at least a
prediction of it!
3. Visit a shut-in – This might not seem like it belongs on a list of first date
ideas but if you step away from your preconceptions, I think you might
consider it and even try it out. Visiting people who are unable to get out and
enjoy regular social interactions isn’t just a worthwhile use of your time. It
gives you a chance to learn a bit about the character of your date. Is he or she
willing to spend time with people who are in need? If your date is unkind it
will only be a matter of time before that unkindness is pointed at you. Seek the
good hearts!
4. Play video games – Playstation, Nintendo, Xbox, it doesn’t matter. If your
date is into video games and you’ve got strong thumbs, it might be time for a
bit of virtual smackdown! Just be careful not to beat your date too badly at
whatever video game you decide to play. You don’t want your first date ideas
to turn into video-game-inspired revenge ideas.
5. Take a music lesson together – Have you always wanted to learn how to
play the guitar or some other instrument? Inviting a date along for a partner
lesson at a local music school might be a fun way to start your lesson and get
the much-dreaded first date out of the way.
6. Go to a used bookstore – It can be a new bookstore if you insist. It doesn’t
matter! If you and your date enjoy reading and perusing books, hitting up a
bookstore on a first date may just end up being one of the ideas that sets you
on a quick course to true love.
7. Go gift shopping – Not for each other, but for somebody else. Perhaps you
need to pick up a gift for your sister or some other relative and you need some
insight into the process? Ask your date to give you some in-motion advice and
perhaps even pick up something small for each other. Trinkets only. Save the
cars and fur coats for later dates!
Play It Safe Ideas
1. Take a cooking class together – Check your local community college or
continuing education program for listings of cooking classes you can take if
there isn’t a culinary school to be found.
2. Visit a tourist hot spot in your town that neither of you has been to
before – Even if you’ve been living in the same place for years, there’s a great
chance that you’ll have missed at least a few interesting places in your
community. If it turns out that your chosen spot is a dud, get creative and
come up with a few quick ideas to finish off your date. Most will give you a lot
of slack if little things go wrong. Just keep the conversation interesting and
the venue won’t be such a killer.
3. Attend a local film or music festival – It’s a rare individual who won’t
enjoy a local festival at least a bit. This is a pretty safe bet for anybody but the
most boring of people.
4. Meet up for a drink – This is one of the safest, and therefore one of the
most-used first date ideas. You can make things a bit more adventurous by
visiting a jazz club or finding a bar that will teach you to make new drinks. Of
course, you could always go and grab some bottled water.
5. Visit a new restaurant – There’s a bit of risk in eating at a new restaurant
because you can’t be sure of the quality but this first date idea still makes the
“safe” list because it’s not hugely risky.
6. Eat in – Do you already have great cooking skills? If so, break ’em out for an
early dinner! You might want to check for possible food allergies before you
start sharing your iron chef skills though.
7. Phone it in – Oh yeah, the date that consists entirely of talking into a small
electronic device. This one is for all you cyber dating pros out there looking for
first date ideas like you planned on doing something other than talking on
your phone.All jokes aside, there are some benefits to phoning in. Sure, you
don’t get to see your date’s face while you’re talking, but that also means that
you don’t have to get dressed up or worry about what your face looks like. See?
Might not be a bad idea.
Things to keep in mind on your first date
So now I guess you have sufficient ideas on where to go on your first date. Still, I
would like to remind you some of the important things that you need to keep in mind
if you want your first date to be perfect!
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1. Don’t be late. This is a common rule but a lot of people still fail to do so. No
one likes to spend their timing waiting and being late is simply disrespectful.
Give yourself enough time to prepare and try to arrive the location 10-15 mins
earlier. If you are running late, make sure you give your date a call or text so
they can go to a cafe or find somewhere to sit while waiting for you.
2. Don’t get over-dressed. I know how that feel, you want to look perfect for
your date and try very hard to dress up to impress them. However, it’s best to
dress according to the event you are going to. Imagine if you guys are going for
pinic and you are in suit or high heels, that would be super awkward for both
of you. I am pretty sure you won’t impress him/her for this.
3. Don’t talk about past relationship. Either asking or talking about them
are a big “NO-NO”. This is something very personal to ask on a first date
because you are not sure whether your date is comfortable to talk about it.
Talking about your ex might also leave your date an impression that you still
haven’t moved on yet.
4. Don’t get too drunk. If you can’t control yourself when you are drunk, I am
pretty sure you know what to do. Also, it’s always nice to stay a sharp mind to
remember all the things that happened on your first dates so you guys can
start to build on memories and topics to talk about on your next date.
5. Do offer to split the bill. If you are a guy and you feel comfortable to pay
the bill, that’s very nice of you. But for ladies, don’t just sit there and expect
people to pay for your meal, it’s always nice to offer help on the bill! It shows
that you are friendly and considerable person. Of course, if the guy insist to
pay, just let them do the job and don’t argue over it.
6. Don’t focus on talking about yourself. Who doesn’t love to understood?
Dates are supposed to be chances for you guys to know more about each other
before getting into a relationship (or friendship, oops) So if you can’t help to
blablabla about yourself, you will leave an impression of you not interested in
your dates. Always remember it’s not a stand-up comedy, it’s a
CONVERSAION. Try to ask your dates about their interests, jobs and hobbies,
nothing too serious and personal!

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21 first date ideas

  • 2. First date is always important because it’s where you drop your first impression and most importantly, it plays a big role to determine whether or not this relationship will work out. It’s just like choosing what to read. Let’s not talk about the book cover (I know, I know, Don’t just a book by its cover!) so now we all judge by how the story begins. No matter how amazing the storyline is, if the introduction failed to grab readers’ attention, no one is going to read it because no one likes to get their time wasted. Relationship works this way too. If you need ideas to secure your first date and your own impression, You’ve come to the right place! When I first started dating, my idea of a date was the stereotypical cheap-dinner-and-a-movie. Don’t hate on me, I didn’t know any better! By the time I finished high school I was pretty comfortable in my own skin and got pretty good at coming up with ideas for dates. I’ve put together a list of some of my favorites as well as some suggested by friends. Enjoy! Outdoor Adventures 1. Go for a walk – This is such a simple first date idea but most shy away from it because they feel like they must do something complex in order for their date to be impressed. Wrong! The only ideas you need to impress your date with are the ones that you articulate as your conversation progresses. If you are an interesting person and have found a fun person to spend time with, rest assured that a walk about town will be just fine. Remember, the idea is to leave your date wanting more. As a warning, you may be tempted to start talking about previous relationships. Don’t. That’s not how to get over an ex. Rather, enjoying the company of a fun new person without dwelling on the past will serve you best! 2. Watch an outdoor movie – Going to a movie is pretty worn out in the world of first date ideas. You can resurrect it in a fun way by going to see a movie outdoors or, even better, at a drive-in movie theater if you still happen to have one near where you live. Want to know The Secrets of Making A person Fall in Love With You? 3. Create your own picnic – Pick a nice spot near where you’re meeting up and swing by a grocery store or take-out restaurant for some quick eats before setting up camp for food and conversation with your new favorite person. There’s no need to spend a lot of money. Picnics are supposed to be simple
  • 3. and you want it to be about getting to know your date, not truffles wrapped in gold foil! 4. Go boating – The idea of sailing on a first date seems like a recipe for disaster but something milder, like canoeing, row boating, or taking a paddle boat out on a sunny afternoon would work well. Admittedly, the last time I took a girl on a paddle boat for a date we both ended up soaking wet with marsh moss in our hair. It was amazing though! 5. Go for a run together – If running is your idea of a good time, an easy run with a new friend can make for a great date! 6. Volunteer at a soup kitchen – One of the best first dates I’ve ever been on involved meeting up with a woman at 5:30am to serve breakfast at the local soup kitchen. Not only did we get to know each other better but we got to do something worthwhile that helped our community. It’s hard to come up with a reason why giving back to your community could be considered a bad idea for a first date! If you don’t have a soup kitchen or other short-order volunteer opportunity, be creative and come up with your own. There is always somebody nearby who could use some help if we are willing to give it. 7. Get up insanely early and be the first customers at your favorite breakfast joint – You’ll get a chance to chat before the restaurant gets busy and have time to do some people-watching when the regulars start pouring in. Note: If you find somebody who is cool with rolling out of bed early to join you for a breakfast date, it’d be a bad idea to let them get away! Indoor Sweetness 1. Take an intro yoga or other fitness class – If you’re really out of shape, this might not be a great idea for a first date. Otherwise, pick a class that will fit both of your fitness levels and have some fun! You should know that getting hot and sweaty 2. Visit a psychic – Everybody likes to know the future, well, at least a prediction of it!
  • 4. 3. Visit a shut-in – This might not seem like it belongs on a list of first date ideas but if you step away from your preconceptions, I think you might consider it and even try it out. Visiting people who are unable to get out and enjoy regular social interactions isn’t just a worthwhile use of your time. It gives you a chance to learn a bit about the character of your date. Is he or she willing to spend time with people who are in need? If your date is unkind it will only be a matter of time before that unkindness is pointed at you. Seek the good hearts! 4. Play video games – Playstation, Nintendo, Xbox, it doesn’t matter. If your date is into video games and you’ve got strong thumbs, it might be time for a bit of virtual smackdown! Just be careful not to beat your date too badly at whatever video game you decide to play. You don’t want your first date ideas to turn into video-game-inspired revenge ideas. 5. Take a music lesson together – Have you always wanted to learn how to play the guitar or some other instrument? Inviting a date along for a partner lesson at a local music school might be a fun way to start your lesson and get the much-dreaded first date out of the way. 6. Go to a used bookstore – It can be a new bookstore if you insist. It doesn’t matter! If you and your date enjoy reading and perusing books, hitting up a bookstore on a first date may just end up being one of the ideas that sets you on a quick course to true love. 7. Go gift shopping – Not for each other, but for somebody else. Perhaps you need to pick up a gift for your sister or some other relative and you need some insight into the process? Ask your date to give you some in-motion advice and perhaps even pick up something small for each other. Trinkets only. Save the cars and fur coats for later dates! Play It Safe Ideas 1. Take a cooking class together – Check your local community college or continuing education program for listings of cooking classes you can take if there isn’t a culinary school to be found.
  • 5. 2. Visit a tourist hot spot in your town that neither of you has been to before – Even if you’ve been living in the same place for years, there’s a great chance that you’ll have missed at least a few interesting places in your community. If it turns out that your chosen spot is a dud, get creative and come up with a few quick ideas to finish off your date. Most will give you a lot of slack if little things go wrong. Just keep the conversation interesting and the venue won’t be such a killer. 3. Attend a local film or music festival – It’s a rare individual who won’t enjoy a local festival at least a bit. This is a pretty safe bet for anybody but the most boring of people. 4. Meet up for a drink – This is one of the safest, and therefore one of the most-used first date ideas. You can make things a bit more adventurous by visiting a jazz club or finding a bar that will teach you to make new drinks. Of course, you could always go and grab some bottled water. 5. Visit a new restaurant – There’s a bit of risk in eating at a new restaurant because you can’t be sure of the quality but this first date idea still makes the “safe” list because it’s not hugely risky. 6. Eat in – Do you already have great cooking skills? If so, break ’em out for an early dinner! You might want to check for possible food allergies before you start sharing your iron chef skills though. 7. Phone it in – Oh yeah, the date that consists entirely of talking into a small electronic device. This one is for all you cyber dating pros out there looking for first date ideas like you planned on doing something other than talking on your phone.All jokes aside, there are some benefits to phoning in. Sure, you don’t get to see your date’s face while you’re talking, but that also means that you don’t have to get dressed up or worry about what your face looks like. See? Might not be a bad idea. Things to keep in mind on your first date So now I guess you have sufficient ideas on where to go on your first date. Still, I would like to remind you some of the important things that you need to keep in mind if you want your first date to be perfect! ⌄ Scroll down to continue reading article ⌄ Become Super Productive with The Full Life Planner Grab your Full Life Planner to plan your day for maximum productivity and get more done in less time. 1. Don’t be late. This is a common rule but a lot of people still fail to do so. No one likes to spend their timing waiting and being late is simply disrespectful. Give yourself enough time to prepare and try to arrive the location 10-15 mins earlier. If you are running late, make sure you give your date a call or text so they can go to a cafe or find somewhere to sit while waiting for you. 2. Don’t get over-dressed. I know how that feel, you want to look perfect for your date and try very hard to dress up to impress them. However, it’s best to
  • 6. dress according to the event you are going to. Imagine if you guys are going for pinic and you are in suit or high heels, that would be super awkward for both of you. I am pretty sure you won’t impress him/her for this. 3. Don’t talk about past relationship. Either asking or talking about them are a big “NO-NO”. This is something very personal to ask on a first date because you are not sure whether your date is comfortable to talk about it. Talking about your ex might also leave your date an impression that you still haven’t moved on yet. 4. Don’t get too drunk. If you can’t control yourself when you are drunk, I am pretty sure you know what to do. Also, it’s always nice to stay a sharp mind to remember all the things that happened on your first dates so you guys can start to build on memories and topics to talk about on your next date. 5. Do offer to split the bill. If you are a guy and you feel comfortable to pay the bill, that’s very nice of you. But for ladies, don’t just sit there and expect people to pay for your meal, it’s always nice to offer help on the bill! It shows that you are friendly and considerable person. Of course, if the guy insist to pay, just let them do the job and don’t argue over it. 6. Don’t focus on talking about yourself. Who doesn’t love to understood? Dates are supposed to be chances for you guys to know more about each other before getting into a relationship (or friendship, oops) So if you can’t help to blablabla about yourself, you will leave an impression of you not interested in your dates. Always remember it’s not a stand-up comedy, it’s a CONVERSAION. Try to ask your dates about their interests, jobs and hobbies, nothing too serious and personal!