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16 Assertiveness Lessons
From Japanese Gardens
Imagine if your assertive
communication looked like this…
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Or like this…
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It wouldn’t be as scary would it?
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Japanese gardens are known for
their beauty, balance and harmony
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They are designed to be natural
and avoid artificial ornamentation
AssertiveWay.com
That is the first lesson for
assertive communication.
Be natural! Be yourself!
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To achieve that harmony, Japanese
Gardens are designed with many elements
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Here are 16 Japanese
gardens elements that show
how to be more assertive
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WALLS
Japanese Garden – Protect the garden
Assertiveness – Protect your interests, time and energy with boundaries
1
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STONES
Japanese Garden – Anchor the garden following certain rules
Assertiveness – Also have anchoring rules you can use
2
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WATER
Japanese Garden - Calm, renewal, flow, continuity
Assertiveness – Centered calmness when communicating
3
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WATERFALL
Japanese Garden – Impermanence of everything, passage of time
Assertiveness – Impermanence of problems that will resolve over time
4
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LAKE OR POND
Japanese Garden – Reflects the garden on its still water
Assertiveness – Reflects the expression of your ideas, desires, needs
5
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BRIDGE
Japanese Garden – Connection between parts of the garden
Assertiveness – Connection with others through mutual respect
6
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LANTERN
Japanese Garden – Create clarity by lighting the path
Assertiveness – Create clarity in the intentions and
reasons rather than second guessing
7
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PINES
Japanese Garden – Power and masculinity
Assertiveness – Confident and powerful attitude
8
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CHERRY BLOSSOM
Japanese Garden – Feminine energy and renewal
Assertiveness – Kindness and caring attitude
9
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BORROWED SCENERY
Japanese Garden – Use background landscape as
a backdrop to garden, expanding the garden
Assertiveness – Look at greater context of a situation
10
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WINDING PATH
Japanese Garden – Progressively reveals the garden
Assertiveness – Progressively reveal yourself and open-up the dialogue
11
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BAMBU
Japanese Garden – Strong roots for prosperity
Assertiveness – Strong rooted values for a strong conversation
12
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WATER BASIN
Japanese Garden – For cleaning ritual in tea ceremonies
Assertiveness – For cleaning your mind from false assumptions
13
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MOSS
Japanese Garden – Ancient garden look
Assertiveness – Associated with maturity and leadership
14
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CARPS OR KOI FISH
Japanese Garden – Live up to 50 years and represent perseverance
Assertiveness – Perseverance required for mastery
15
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LOTUS FLOWER
Japanese Garden – Looks like it floats but is supported by a strong stem
anchored to the soil
Assertiveness – Looks effortless because it is anchored by strong positive beliefs
16
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Those are the 16 elements!
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WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL
LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES
CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU
WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER
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WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL
LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES
CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU
WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER
BOUNDARIES RULES ANCHOR CALM TIME FLOW
EXPRESSION CONNECTION CLARITY POWER
KINDNESS CONTEXT REVEAL STRONGVALUES
CLEAR ASSUMPTION MATURITY PERSERVERENCE POSITIVE BELIEFS
AssertiveWay.com
WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL
LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES
CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU
WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER
BOUNDARIES RULES ANCHOR CALM TIME FLOW
EXPRESSION CONNECTION CLARITY POWER
KINDNESS CONTEXT REVEAL STRONG VALUES
CLEAR ASSUMPTION MATURITY PERSERVERENCE POSITIVE BELIEFS
AssertiveWay.com
Next time you plan on being assertive,
remember the Japanese garden elements
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What to learn more?
Sign up for FREE training on:
How to Be Assertive
Without Being Rude
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16 Assertiveness Lessons From Japanese Gardens

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16 Assertiveness Lessons From Japanese Gardens

  • 1. 16 Assertiveness Lessons From Japanese Gardens
  • 2. Imagine if your assertive communication looked like this… AssertiveWay.com
  • 4. It wouldn’t be as scary would it? AssertiveWay.com
  • 5. Japanese gardens are known for their beauty, balance and harmony AssertiveWay.com
  • 6. They are designed to be natural and avoid artificial ornamentation AssertiveWay.com
  • 7. That is the first lesson for assertive communication. Be natural! Be yourself! AssertiveWay.com
  • 8. To achieve that harmony, Japanese Gardens are designed with many elements AssertiveWay.com
  • 9. Here are 16 Japanese gardens elements that show how to be more assertive AssertiveWay.com
  • 10. WALLS Japanese Garden – Protect the garden Assertiveness – Protect your interests, time and energy with boundaries 1 AssertiveWay.com
  • 11. STONES Japanese Garden – Anchor the garden following certain rules Assertiveness – Also have anchoring rules you can use 2 AssertiveWay.com
  • 12. WATER Japanese Garden - Calm, renewal, flow, continuity Assertiveness – Centered calmness when communicating 3 AssertiveWay.com
  • 13. WATERFALL Japanese Garden – Impermanence of everything, passage of time Assertiveness – Impermanence of problems that will resolve over time 4 AssertiveWay.com
  • 14. LAKE OR POND Japanese Garden – Reflects the garden on its still water Assertiveness – Reflects the expression of your ideas, desires, needs 5 AssertiveWay.com
  • 15. BRIDGE Japanese Garden – Connection between parts of the garden Assertiveness – Connection with others through mutual respect 6 AssertiveWay.com
  • 16. LANTERN Japanese Garden – Create clarity by lighting the path Assertiveness – Create clarity in the intentions and reasons rather than second guessing 7 AssertiveWay.com
  • 17. PINES Japanese Garden – Power and masculinity Assertiveness – Confident and powerful attitude 8 AssertiveWay.com
  • 18. CHERRY BLOSSOM Japanese Garden – Feminine energy and renewal Assertiveness – Kindness and caring attitude 9 AssertiveWay.com
  • 19. BORROWED SCENERY Japanese Garden – Use background landscape as a backdrop to garden, expanding the garden Assertiveness – Look at greater context of a situation 10 AssertiveWay.com
  • 20. WINDING PATH Japanese Garden – Progressively reveals the garden Assertiveness – Progressively reveal yourself and open-up the dialogue 11 AssertiveWay.com
  • 21. BAMBU Japanese Garden – Strong roots for prosperity Assertiveness – Strong rooted values for a strong conversation 12 AssertiveWay.com
  • 22. WATER BASIN Japanese Garden – For cleaning ritual in tea ceremonies Assertiveness – For cleaning your mind from false assumptions 13 AssertiveWay.com
  • 23. MOSS Japanese Garden – Ancient garden look Assertiveness – Associated with maturity and leadership 14 AssertiveWay.com
  • 24. CARPS OR KOI FISH Japanese Garden – Live up to 50 years and represent perseverance Assertiveness – Perseverance required for mastery 15 AssertiveWay.com
  • 25. LOTUS FLOWER Japanese Garden – Looks like it floats but is supported by a strong stem anchored to the soil Assertiveness – Looks effortless because it is anchored by strong positive beliefs 16 AssertiveWay.com
  • 26. Those are the 16 elements! AssertiveWay.com
  • 28. WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER AssertiveWay.com
  • 29. WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER BOUNDARIES RULES ANCHOR CALM TIME FLOW EXPRESSION CONNECTION CLARITY POWER KINDNESS CONTEXT REVEAL STRONGVALUES CLEAR ASSUMPTION MATURITY PERSERVERENCE POSITIVE BELIEFS AssertiveWay.com
  • 30. WALLS STONES WATER WATERFALL LAKE OR POND BRIDGE LANTERN PINES CHERRY BLOSSOM BORROWED SCENE WINDING PATH BAMBU WATER BASIN MOSS KOI FISH LOTUS FLOWER BOUNDARIES RULES ANCHOR CALM TIME FLOW EXPRESSION CONNECTION CLARITY POWER KINDNESS CONTEXT REVEAL STRONG VALUES CLEAR ASSUMPTION MATURITY PERSERVERENCE POSITIVE BELIEFS AssertiveWay.com
  • 31. Next time you plan on being assertive, remember the Japanese garden elements AssertiveWay.com
  • 32. What to learn more? Sign up for FREE training on: How to Be Assertive Without Being Rude AssertiveWay.com https://bit.ly/3bMLZzt